Portions in italics by: El Fury
Full articles at: http://marriedchristiansex.com
Edited by Preacher Frank for use at praying4you.net
May 8, 2020
Disclaimer: Though I the editor of praying4you.net find nothing here contrary to God’s word, I may not however agree with everything that is presented at the website of El Fury mention above. That being said, I do believe that he is a brother in Christ, thus I have used portions of his articles here to help women understand the importance of accepting their husbands semen, whether orally or vaginally. Also, last portion of this article is taken from a different website at: https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC5758600/
All Christian sex bloggers eventually get around to the question: should a wife swallow her husband’s semen? As usual, the answer is “if she wants to”. Well that’s fine… no one should be coerced into doing anything against her will… but I’m going to go a bit farther for wives and claim that you should cultivate a desire to swallow.
Why? Well, let’s get inside your husband’s head for a minute. As I’ve written before, we men like to mark our territory — and depositing his semen into your body is one of the ways your husband marks you. If you reject his semen, you’re rejecting him as your mate and as the potential father of your children. Even though it’s your mouth, refusing to swallow is basically the same as insisting that your husband wear a condom when you have intercourse. On the flip side, when you do swallow, you create intimacy between you and your husband. You demonstrate love and acceptance …. that goes beyond words. … And finally: God himself describes the passion of oral sex better than I ever could. “As an apple tree among the trees of the forest, so is my beloved among the young men. With great delight I sat in his shadow, and his fruit was sweet to my taste. (Song of Songs 2:3)
Bonnie Wallace says “that semen is the perfect food for a wife. In addition, it also has some great mind-altering effects. It boosts melatonin, which helps you sleep, and oxytocin, which increases affection and boosts your mood. You know how they say that breast milk is the most perfect food for an infant? Well, semen is a pretty darn close comparison for the perfect sex food for a wife.”
Oral Sex with the Father Is Protective against PE in a Subsequent Pregnancy
Oral sex (with the father of oneʼs baby) protects against PE (269, 270) (P = 0.0003), arguably because exposure to the paternal antigens in the seminal fluid have a greater exposure to the blood stream via the buccal mucosa than they would via the vagina. This is a particularly interesting (and probably unexpected) finding, that is relatively easily understood from an immunological point of view, and it is hard to conceive of alternative explanations.
Segment above is taken from the article at: https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC5758600/
Originally Penned by Chris Taylor
This article is edited for use at praying4you.net by Preacher Frank
May 3, 2020
(Disclaimer by the editor of praying4you.net: Though I find nothing here contrary to God’s word, I may not agree however with everything that is presented at the website of Chris Taylor. That being said, I do believe that she is a sister in Christ, thus I have used portions of her articles here to help women understand the importance of accepting their husband’s semen, whether orally or vaginally.)
All words below are portions taken from the articles penned by Chris Taylor at: https://forgivenwife.com
Semen is part of sex. If youʼre going to have sex with your husband, youʼre going to need to get comfortable with his semen.
Quite a few Bible scholars have suggested that this verse refers to oral sex: "Like an apple tree among the trees of the forest is my beloved among the young men. I delight to sit in his shade, and his fruit is sweet to my taste." (Song of Solomon 2:3)
His fruit is sweet to her taste? That definitely sounds like oral sex to me. Plenty of women struggle with oral sex. … There are also lots of women who enjoy giving their husbands oral sex. … Why do so many husbands want their wives to swallow their semen? And if your husband asks, what should you do?
When it comes to a husband’s request for something sexual, we don’t always assume the best of him. … A lot of us are married to pretty good-willed husbands who are decent men. Their reasons are much more honorable and touching than we might assume at first. Their request for swallowing speaks to the ways that sex provides not only physical pleasure but also emotional connection. Yes, many guys will ask their wives to swallow because it feels good to have her mouth on him throughout the entirety of his orgasm and ejaculation. I want to point out that this really is okay. We should be able to ask each other to do things that give us sexual pleasure. If the only reason he wants it is that it will feel good, that is a good enough reason for him to ask.
But when it comes to swallowing, it’s about something else, too. It is about his heart and his feeling of connection with his wife. Yup, I said it. Semen can be an emotional thing for our guys—and that can be an important part of why husbands ask their wives to swallow. For our husbands, though, semen represents the essence of their manhood and sexuality. It is part of them. An orgasm floods a man with bonding hormones. He is emotionally open at that moment. Accepting it represents a wife’s acceptance of him as a man.
Maybe that sounds a little crazy—but when I read what men have to say about how they feel emotionally about how their wives treat their semen, it’s pretty clear: A wife’s welcoming acceptance of her husband’s semen speaks into his heart. Imagine what a wife’s rejection of his semen speaks into her husband’s heart: rejecting his semen is a rejection of his sexuality and of him. …
Many men will see a wife’s swallowing as evidence that she truly accepts who he is as a man. Swallowing says that she finds no part of him to be disgusting. Swallowing can be an emotional experience for a guy, helping him feel completely and totally accepted by their wives. It helps them feel connected.
I think it is helpful to understand why our husbands may want us to do something sexual. ...That said, I do think it is important that you seriously consider your husband’s request. As you would with any other sexual act, first consider whether it is something that is sinful or unhealthy. When it comes to swallowing semen, neither is the case.
Developing a positive attitude toward your husbandʼs semen is well worth the effort in helping him feel loved and accepted as a man. Even if you donʼt come to love it, you can learn to enjoy it as a special part of your sexual intimacy together.
This article is composed of articles taken from J. Parkers website:https://hotholyhumorous.com
Edited by Preacher Frank for use at praying4you.net
May 8, 2020
Disclaimer: Though I the editor of praying4you.net find nothing here contrary to God’s word, I may not however agree with everything that is presented at the website of J. Parker mention above. That being said, I do believe that she is a sister in Christ, thus I have used portions of her articles here to help women understand the importance of accepting their husband’s semen, whether orally or vaginally.
This begins the portions of J. Parkers articles:
I know many husbands desire that their wives take their ejaculate into their mouths and even swallow. …. And I do believe that a number of wives adverse to the idea could learn to accept semen into their mouth and even swallow-
Is oral sex okay with God? There are plenty of fringe sexual practices out there, but oral sex doesn’t seem to be one. There is no biblical prohibition on oral sex and at least two possible references to oral sex in the Bible. One is man to woman, and the other is woman to man: “Like an apple tree among the trees of the forest, so is my beloved among the young men. In his shade I took great delight and sat down, and his fruit was sweet to my taste” (Song of Songs 2:3). “Fruit” is a euphemism, of course.
Let’s just address this question first: Is it hygienic? Yes, it’s perfectly fine to swallow semen. It even contains vitamins, sodium, and fructose, all of which you ingest in food. One study oddly showed that semen has antidepressant qualities, so there might even be a health benefit. The only caveat here is if he has a sexually transmitted disease, but then it’s not the semen that’s the problem, but rather contact with any outbreak on the skin. Otherwise, it’s totally fine.
What about the taste? It tends to be a bit salty, but can taste sweet — depending on what your husband eats and his specific taste. If you don’t like the taste of his semen, he can do several things to improve its flavor: wash thoroughly in the area beforehand, avoid smoking, incorporate more fruit and/or fruit juices into his diet, cut down on red meat and dairy consumption, drink plenty of water. You could also add a flavored personal lubricant to the experience, to sweeten the overall taste.
How about the texture? Some people have fewer issues with taste than texture. Semen is about the consistency of a beaten egg, so it’s a thick liquid that may not appeal to some wives. If this is the sole issue, then letting your husband ejaculate in the back of your mouth, closer to your throat, will keep you from dealing with the texture much, if at all.
How do you address the gag reflex? If you have a strong gag reflex, then you need to consider how to make fellatio work well for you. First things first: You don’t have to swallow him; that is, put his whole penis into your mouth or “deep-throat” it. … Also, consider changing positions to find a comfortable angle for your mouth and throat.
Honestly, getting over that is like getting over anything else you want to do but have an initial aversion to doing. You have to re-frame how you think about it, reminding yourself constantly that this is okay and even good; then take baby steps toward changing your behavior; and reward yourself for progress you make. It takes time and intentionality, but there really isn’t another magical formula. You can most likely break through the mental block - if you adopt actions that help you shift your thinking about this practice.
But since it’s important to him, and he has not demanded it but rather requested, is there a way you can make it happen? ….So the final question really is: How can you make this an enjoyable experience? Many wives do enjoy giving oral sex and swallowing.
How do they do it? Well you have to go to J. Parkers website for more details at: https://hotholyhumorous.com
This article is condensed by Preacher Frank for use at praying4you.net
May 8, 2020
Disclaimer: Though I the editor of praying4you.net find nothing here contrary to God’s word, I may not however agree with everything that is presented at the website of Julie Sibert mentioned below. That being said, I do believe that she is a sister in Christ, thus I have used portions of her article here to help women understand the importance of accepting their husband’s semen, whether orally or vaginally.
Below are portions of Julie Sibert’s article. Her original full article is available at: https://intimacyinmarriage.com
Years ago, I was having lunch with a woman who would eventually become one of my closest friends. At the time of our lunch all those years ago, we were new colleagues, and we soon discovered we had a plethora of things in common — our love of sex being one of them.
To say she and I had great ease in talking about sex in our marriages would be an understatement. To this day, she is a confidante who I know will always be up for a transparent and authentic conversation about sexual struggles and sexual joys. At our first lunch together, we eventually came upon the topic of oral sex, to which I said, “Who doesn’t love oral sex?!” She looked at me quizzically and asked, “Giving or receiving?” “BOTH,” I answered enthusiastically. She agreed.
If you are a wife who wants to bless your husband with oral pleasure and — dare I say — get to the point you love it, then stick with me sister. I can help you.
From a biblical standpoint, many theologians (and average everyday Christians) agree with the interpretation of Song of Songs in the Old Testament. This poetic book gives us great imagery of passionate sexual love between a husband and wife. The challenge, of course, is that it is told primarily in allegory and metaphor.
The words “sex” and “oral sex” don’t appear in the book of Song of Songs. But we do get the below passages…
I KNOW. ALLEGORY AND METAPHOR.
For a moment let’s put the interpretation debate aside and rely instead on good old common sense. You would be hard pressed to find any married couple who thinks the only appropriate way to kiss is face to face with our mouths and lips.
We intuitively know that sexual passion affords us the freedom to kiss our spouse’s neck or their hand or their chest. A husband longs to kiss his wife’s breasts; a wife longs to be aroused this way. And those touches (just to name a few) are arousing. So why would using our mouth to sexually bless our spouse’s genitals be any different? It is no different. God has not arbitrarily drawn a line anywhere on our spouse’s body to indicate where sexual pleasure with our mouth is off limits.
WHAT DO I DO TO MAKE ORAL SEX INCREDIBLE FOR HIM?
Beyond asking him what feels good, there are some other techniques that are sure to increase his arousal and enjoyment of oral sex. Men typically are visual, so have some light in the room and position yourselves so that he gets a good view of what you’re doing. … Oral sex can fit well into your sexual intimacy, often as part of foreplay and occasionally as the main act all together. Communication is key.
I GET WHY HE ENJOYS IT. BUT HOW CAN I LOVE GIVING IT?
As a wife, you ethically are the only one in your husband’s life who can sexually please him. No one else is charged with that privilege and responsibility. There is tremendous power in that, and I would argue it is a good and righteous power, because it is a pathway to deeper intimacy with the man you married. When you grow in your confidence in sexually arousing him, I believe you can find enjoyment in this. You can love giving your husband oral sex, because it’s never just about sex. It’s about blessing the man you fell in love with.